All went well. We will work on organizational skills in regards to B’s homework and school bag/folders. As well as making certain he brings his Agenda home, WITH his assignments written in so we can initial them as he gets them done each day.
The doctor is pleased that I was able to take B off of his Seroquel (I did it on my own, without doctor’s permission, seeing as the dr. knew I would eventually decide when to try) with POSITIVE results in his mood (especially in the mornings) and sleeping/waking pattern. I no longer struggle in the mornings with him and his having nasty mood swings, or having him OVER sleep on the weekends, also with bad results.
He is still on his two ADHD medications. Vyvanse in the morning and the Intuniv at bedtime. Highest dose possible for the Vyvanse, still, and the 2 mg. dose out of possible 3 for the Intuniv.
Next appointment will be in January. And yes, the Case Manager was there and was instructed by the doctor to HELP with me getting him to better organize and to check in frequently with us as a family.
Case Manager “funny”… We told her how B’s been doing in school. We mentioned his two C’s for NOT turning in his homework and that we are taking steps to correct the problem. She interjects with “be sure to praise him when he does something right” when I mentioned that B said he was NOW turning in his homework.
Right then and there, I and my husband BOTH cut her off with a look of shock I think. We said that we DO praise him. But I refuse to let my child try to turn the tables and change the subject as to get out of getting in to trouble for his lack of responsibility with HIS homework.
Her eyes got big when we said that while we are glad he IS “turning it in now”, as B stated, we aren’t going to ALWAYS use the “5 positives for 1 negative” rule.
Funny. She rarely sees my son, calls to check up on him and us, and only really has us sign papers. I don’t see that as qualifying to TELL ME what I “need” to do. If she were involved more with him and with us on a more personal level (calling, coming for home visits, etc.), then I would see it differently.