Special Needs Parent of the Month (February, 2012)

Welcome to the “Special Needs Parent of the Month” post, where MONTHLY, I will feature a Special Needs Parent. If you are interested in being considered as a featured SN parent in a future posting, please email me at melmom2angels@yahoo.com.

This month’s parent is Holly. She is a sweet, very energetic, hilarious and a bit of a potty-mouth (LOL!) lady. She wears her heart on her sleeve. And she has a pretty full plate. In her own words, she will tell of herself, her family, and her life with having a disabled child.

This is Brooke.

She’s my fourth child, my second daughter, and the only one born with an extra chromosome….

Brooke has Down Syndrome.

But please, don’t feel badly for me-or for her. Don’t make that cutesy smile and give me a look of pity mixed with wonder at how I do, especially with four other children…

Because Brooke? Is absolutely fantastic and a joy to have in our family…

I’m not going to pretend she’s exactly like our other children, because she’s not…

There is a developmental delay with Brooke. We just had an evaluation last week and she’s about 6-9 months behind her typical peers…not horrible, but still something that needs to be addressed so that Brooke can the best life possible…

So we do therapy. Brooke has physical therapy once a week for an hour, and occupational therapy and speech therapy twice a week for 30 minutes each. Is it a pain in the butt? Sometimes. Is it inconvenient? Sure, there are days I’d like to not plan around it…but we love Brooke, and we want her to thrive…so we go…

And Brooke loves it! She gets a kick out of people applauding for her, in fact, she expects it now no matter what task she does, so getting constant attention and love for doing puzzles or pointing out pictures in a book is right up that chunky girl’s alley!

But life isn’t all about therapy and trying to make her better…I’m a firm believer in letting her be a regular child.

Brooke plays with her brothers and sister. She pushes her babies around the stroller. She throws the ball. She colors on the walls. She claps and dances along to The Wiggles. She gives hugs and kisses. She throws her lunch at the wall when she’s not happy with what I’ve made.

Brooke is more like your child than different…

So what if she’s going to need a little bit more help learning? So what if she doesn’t have as many words as your kid does right now?

Brooke will catch up…

And we’re going to do anything we can to help her have an amazing life…

Because she’s worth it.

I’m a shameless self promoter by the way…read my blog at Holly’s House-Not a Perfect Mom’s Blog and check me out on my FACEBOOK LIKE PAGE too. And if you really love me, follow me on twitter. And uh, I hate to admit it, but I have a Google + page too #hangsheadinshame. Warning: I have a potty mouth….

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